Silk
Comparison
Silk vs Obedience
Obedience runs a dynamic day to day. Silk is the private record of what you did and how it felt.
Layered
Silk on iPhone
Date night
Facts checked on 11 November 2026.
The short answer
Silk is a private log of moments, toys, kinks and mood that stays on one phone. Obedience is a habit tracker that links two phones in a BDSM dynamic, with rewards and punishments.
Pick Silk if
- You want to log a scene: who was there, the toys, the kinks and the mood after.
- You want your log on your own phone, connected to nobody.
- You want each partner's limits, protection and STI tests in the same place.
Side by side
| Silk | Obedience | |
|---|---|---|
| Built for | people who want a private record of their intimate life, with one partner, several or solo | couples in a BDSM dynamic who want habits, rules, rewards and punishments tracked |
| Where it runs | iPhone, on your device with no account | iPhone and iPad, in 9 languages, with partners' phones connected |
| Outside the app | widgets that read as a habit tracker, with a one-tap log and a Control Centre button | real-time updates between the connected phones |
| What you log | moments from holding hands to a date night, with mood, notes, protection and STI tests | daily and weekly habits and tasks, rules, rewards, punishments and points |
| How you pay | free with one partner and a 30 day history; Premium is an annual or monthly subscription | Obedience Pro by subscription, for one, three or six months or a year |
What Silk is
Silk is a private intimacy and relationship tracker for iPhone. It logs every kind of closeness in one tap, shows your rhythm and patterns over time, and puts widgets on your Home Screen that read as a habit tracker.
What Obedience is
Obedience is a habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic, for iPhone and iPad. Partners connect their phones: one updates habits and spends points, the other sets rewards and punishments and sees the updates in real time. It also keeps rules, has a live chat and supports multiple partners.
Questions
Is Silk a good alternative to Obedience?
Yes, if you want a log of closeness as a whole, with Home Screen widgets that read as a habit tracker. Silk is a private log of moments, toys, kinks and mood that stays on one phone. Obedience is a habit tracker that links two phones in a BDSM dynamic, with rewards and punishments.
What is the difference between Silk and Obedience?
Silk is built for people who want a private record of their intimate life, with one partner, several or solo. Obedience is built for couples in a BDSM dynamic who want habits, rules, rewards and punishments tracked.
How is Silk sold compared with Obedience?
Silk: free with one partner and a 30 day history; Premium is an annual or monthly subscription. Obedience: Obedience Pro by subscription, for one, three or six months or a year.
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We make Silk. What we say about Obedience comes from its own pages, read on 11 November 2026: Obedience on the App Store. Spotted a mistake? Write to support@silkbetweenus.com. Obedience belongs to its owner, and Silk is not affiliated with it.
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