Silk
Layered
Partners
A name, an emoji, their pronouns
Add what helps you remember someone: preferences, important dates, a note.
No boxes to tick
There is no gender field in Silk and no setting for orientation. The kinds of moment you can log are the same for everyone, and you can add your own.
Cycles only if you want them
Cycle tracking is something you switch on for a partner. Nothing about it is assumed.
Sexual health in the same place
Protection, STI tests and medications sit next to your moments. Medication tracking works through Apple Health.
Home Screen
Widgets that give nothing away
On the Home Screen every kind of moment has a cover, so the widget reads as a habit tracker.
Questions
Is Silk LGBTQ+ friendly?
Silk has no gender or orientation settings and assumes nothing about your partners. The kinds of moment are the same for everyone, and you can add your own.
Can I record a partner's pronouns?
Yes. Pronouns are an optional field on each partner.
What Silk covers
PrivacyOn your phone only, with no account.
InsightsRhythm, mood and wellness patterns.
PartnersCouples, open relationships, polyamory and solo.
LoggingMoments, moods and notes in a tap.
HealthProtection, STI tests, medication and cycles.
Oura and Apple HealthWhat a ring and the Health app record, and what they leave out.
Also by us
Finding the words
Some things are easier to log than to say. murmur lets you say them out loud first: asking for more closeness, bringing up something new, or saying not tonight. Nobody hears it but you.
Rehearse the conversation in murmur
App of the Day
murmur, 2026
App of the Day
murmur, 2026
Also for
CouplesSee your rhythm together, and what a close week looks like.
SoloYour own rhythm, mood and energy, with nobody else in the log.
Open relationships and polyamoryEvery partner in one place, each with their own history.
Long-distanceCalls and messages count, and so does the week you finally meet.
Kink and BDSMScenes, toys and each partner's limits, in a log that gives nothing away.