Silk
Layered
Date nightRhythm
The days that are yours
The Rhythm widget shows when your moments tend to happen. In this example, Saturdays and Sundays.
What a log is for
Most couples can tell when things have been busy. A log turns that feeling into something you can look at together: the weeks you were close, the weeks you were not, and what else was going on.
Closeness counts
Silk logs cuddling, a deep talk, a date night and a massage next to sex. The month you see is the whole relationship.
One phone, your call
The log lives on the phone it was written on. There is no shared account, so what you show your partner is up to you.
Ideas
Date nights by mood and energy
Stuck for a plan? Silk suggests date nights for the energy you have, from a movie night to a conversation about what you both want.
Insights
Your month in one screen
Moments, satisfaction and protection for the month, with a wellness score.
Questions
Is there an intimacy tracker for couples?
Yes. Silk logs every kind of closeness, from holding hands to a date night, and shows your rhythm over weeks and months.
Can we both log to the same account?
No. Silk has no accounts and nothing syncs. The log stays on the phone it was written on.
Does it only track sex?
No. Cuddling, kissing, a deep talk, a massage and a video call all count as moments.
What Silk covers
PrivacyOn your phone only, with no account.
InsightsRhythm, mood and wellness patterns.
PartnersCouples, open relationships, polyamory and solo.
LoggingMoments, moods and notes in a tap.
HealthProtection, STI tests, medication and cycles.
Oura and Apple HealthWhat a ring and the Health app record, and what they leave out.
Also by us
Finding the words
Some things are easier to log than to say. murmur lets you say them out loud first: asking for more closeness, bringing up something new, or saying not tonight. Nobody hears it but you.
Rehearse the conversation in murmur
App of the Day
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App of the Day
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Also for
SoloYour own rhythm, mood and energy, with nobody else in the log.
Open relationships and polyamoryEvery partner in one place, each with their own history.
LGBTQ+No gender to pick and nothing assumed about who you love.
Long-distanceCalls and messages count, and so does the week you finally meet.
Kink and BDSMScenes, toys and each partner's limits, in a log that gives nothing away.